living with diabetes and dealing with mental health

Living with diabetes can be challenging, both physically and mentally. Diabetes is a chronic condition that affects the body's ability to produce or use insulin, a hormone that regulates blood sugar levels. It can lead to various complications such as heart disease, nerve damage, and kidney problems if left uncontrolled. However, the impact of diabetes on mental health is often overlooked.

Diabetes and mental health are closely intertwined. People living with diabetes are at a higher risk of developing mental health issues such as depression, anxiety, and eating disorders. The stress of managing blood sugar levels, medication regimens, and lifestyle changes can take a toll on a person's mental health.

If you're living with diabetes, it's crucial to prioritize your mental health. Here are some tips for taking care of your mental health while managing diabetes:

1. Seek professional help: Don't hesitate to reach out to a mental health professional if you're experiencing symptoms of depression or anxiety. They can help you develop coping strategies and provide support through challenging times.

2. Stay active: Exercise is not only good for your physical health but also your mental health. Regular physical activity can help relieve stress and improve your mood.

3. Connect with others: Join a diabetes support group or connect with others who are living with diabetes. It can help you feel less alone and provide a sense of community.

4. Practice self-care: Take time for yourself each day to do things that make you feel good. This could be taking a warm bath, reading a book, or going for a walk.

5. Monitor your blood sugar levels: Uncontrolled blood sugar levels can contribute to mood swings and feelings of anxiety. Make sure to monitor your blood sugar levels regularly and work with your healthcare provider to keep them in a healthy range.

Living with diabetes and prioritizing mental health care can be a balancing act, but it's important to remember that taking care of your mental health is just as important as managing your physical health. With the right support and resources, it's possible to live a fulfilling life with diabetes.

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Positivity: The Power of a Positive Mindset

Positivity is a term that is often thrown around, but what does it really mean? Simply put, positivity is a mental state characterized by the presence of positive emotions, thoughts, and beliefs. It is the opposite of negativity, which is characterized by negative emotions, thoughts, and beliefs. Positivity can have a profound impact on our lives, from our mental health to our physical health, our relationships, and our success.

Research has shown that positivity can help us to cope with stress, improve our mental and physical health, and enhance our overall well-being. So, how can we cultivate a positive mindset in our lives? Here are some tips:

1. Practice gratitude: Gratitude is the practice of focusing on the good things in our lives, even when things aren't going well. It has been shown to improve our mental health, increase happiness, and reduce stress. Start a daily gratitude practice by writing down three things you are grateful for each day.

2. Surround yourself with positive people: Our social environment has a significant impact on our mindset. Surround yourself with people who are positive, supportive, and uplifting. Avoid those who are negative and toxic.

3. Practice positive self-talk: The way we talk to ourselves can have a big impact on our mindset. Challenge negative self-talk and replace it with positive affirmations. For example, instead of thinking "I can't do this," try "I am capable and will give it my best shot."

4. Engage in activities that bring you joy: Doing things we enjoy can boost our mood and increase positivity. Make time for activities that bring you joy, whether it's a hobby, spending time with loved ones, or exercising.

5. Practice mindfulness: Mindfulness is the practice of being present and fully engaged in the current moment. It can help to reduce stress, improve mood, and increase positivity. Try incorporating mindfulness practices, such as meditation or deep breathing exercises, into your daily routine.

6. Set goals and focus on progress: Having goals can give us a sense of purpose and direction. Break down big goals into smaller, more manageable tasks, and focus on progress rather than perfection. Celebrate small victories along the way.

7. Take care of your physical health: Our physical health can have a big impact on our mental health. Prioritize getting enough sleep, eating a healthy diet, and exercising regularly.

In conclusion, positivity is a powerful tool that can help us to overcome challenges, improve our mental and physical health, and enhance our overall well-being. By practicing gratitude, surrounding ourselves with positive people, engaging in activities that bring us joy, and prioritizing our physical health, we can cultivate a positive mindset and live a happier, more fulfilling life.

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A thought about thoughts that are unkind

Depression and other mental health issues can be debilitating and affect every aspect of a person's life. They can make it difficult to concentrate, make decisions, and even perform routine tasks. However, it's important to remember that these feelings are not permanent and can be overcome with the right tools and mindset. Here are some tips on how to best overcome mental health issues:

1. Seek professional help: Depression and other mental health issues are medical conditions that require treatment. Speak with a mental health professional to determine the best course of action for your specific needs.

2. Practice self-care: Taking care of your physical health can have a positive impact on your mental health. Exercise regularly, eat a balanced diet, and get enough sleep each night.

3. Connect with others: Isolation can make depression and other mental health issues worse. Make an effort to connect with friends and family, or consider joining a support group.

4. Set realistic goals: When you're struggling with mental health issues, it can be tempting to set big goals. However, this can be overwhelming and lead to feelings of failure. Set smaller, more achievable goals instead.

5. Practice mindfulness: Mindfulness is a practice that involves being present in the moment and accepting your thoughts and feelings without judgment. This can help you better manage your emotions and reduce stress.

6. Identify triggers: Certain situations or people may trigger negative feelings. Identify what triggers your depression or anxiety so that you can avoid or manage those situations.

7. Find purpose: Having a sense of purpose can be beneficial for mental health. Find a hobby or activity that brings you joy and fulfillment.

8. Challenge negative thoughts: Depression can cause negative thoughts that spiral out of control. Challenge these thoughts by asking yourself if they are true or if there is evidence to support them.

9. Get outside: Spending time in nature can have a calming effect on the mind and reduce stress.

10. Limit social media and news consumption: The constant stream of negative news and social media posts can worsen mental health issues. Limit your exposure to these sources of information.

11. Practice gratitude: Focusing on what you're grateful for can help shift your focus away from negative thoughts.

12. Consider medication: In some cases, medication may be necessary to manage mental health issues. Speak with a mental health professional about your options.

13. Get support from loved ones: Let your loved ones know what you're going through and how they can support you.

14. Accept your emotions: It's okay to feel sad or anxious sometimes. Accepting your emotions can help you better manage them.

15. Celebrate small victories: Celebrating small victories can boost your mood and help you feel accomplished.

Remember, overcoming mental health issues is a journey and not a quick fix. It takes time, patience, and effort. Be kind to yourself and don't give up. With the right tools and mindset, you can overcome depression and other mental health issues.

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A Positive Uptick

 

So over the last few days I took to cleaning my house. It has been a very meager endeavor however, a productive one none the less. Now many people would not think it is a "big deal" and isnt post worthy. But why it is a "big deal" in my universe is because I literally do not clean as it triggers my depression and unpacks a lot of repressed childhood trauma and negative emotions. 

Because of this my house looks much like an episode of hoarders or some other show you'd see on television about extremes. But what many don't realize is that when one suffers with depression or other mental health issues, "normal" things like self care go out the window.
So my cleaning is a good thing, as it shows that my mental health is in a fairly good place at the moment. "Well that is just an excuse for laziness" and where you may think that, it isn't the case. Studies show that the executive functions of the brain are basically shut down during times of prolonged stress, and mental duress. I am not an inherently messy person, I like the idea of organization and having things neat. But I lack the drive most times to execute the task. Also growing up, cleaning was used as a form of punishment, and there were a lot of negative connotations that went along with it. So whenever I do clean, like I said above, it triggers those memories and I feel like I am in trouble. 

So for the last 3 days I have been taking very small sections of my house and trying to clean and "improve" them. This last weekend, I swept the bathroom floor, beat the hall way runner, and vacuumed it. I cleaned around my desk, the floor of my desk, my coffee table, and a small section of my living room. I put all my insulin pump supplies into some plastic storage drawers that I bought about a year ago, and did my dishes. I ended up throwing away two 55gal contractor trash bags full of stuff. I still have a ton of things to do. But I am pretty proud of myself, at the moment.

Does this mean that my depression and mental health are cured....no! It just means that I am having a positive uptick right now and am feeling pretty good about myself and the humble accomplishments that I have made. 

Outside of this sudden cleaning spree. I have been working on my daily motivational book. I have so much that I need to do for that book, but I am almost at Beta Reader phase, which in itself is pretty exciting. I have an illustrator set up for doing the artwork. I have some helpful forms/inserts ready to be placed into it, and feeling good with the formatting that I've done. So all in all good things a brewing. 

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A cautious happiness

 So over the last few days, it has come to my attention that it has been almost 6 month since I started going to the YMCA. And its been almost as long since I've really experienced any depression too. Its been nice not having my brain yell at me every second of the day telling me that I would be better off dead, and that no one loves me, and that I am a burden, etc. 

It has given me a few moments of clarity and has given me leeway into having the energy to work on my mental health book. I really am placing a lot of energy and time into this thing and I hope that something comes of it. At the time of writing this I have 81 days worth of daily quotes and inspirations. I know that I still have a ton to do in order to get it to rough draft. But its been nice working on this. Daily when I wake up, I take out my phone and I write what I am inspired to do so that morning. 
I have sent a few pages of it to an AI Language Model to see what it thought of the transcript so far and it came back with some very positive feed back. Now if only human's will do the same that is something completely different. 
I recently asked my niece if she would consider doing some illustrations for the book, and she has agreed to do so. Right now my main driving factors in life are going to the YMCA, Tuesday Night Trivia, my YouTube channel, my Podcast, my feeble attempt at learning American Sign Language, and my book. Kind of a sad simplistic life I know. But considering what my life was like prior to 2012 I'll take it. About the only things that I miss from that time period is my friends, and going to college. Above that, there really isn't much else. 

I have thought about yesteryear and some of the other things that have led me to this point in my life. Most of it good, a little bad, but regardless its been an interesting road along the way. I often ask myself, what next? But it truly scares me to think to much into the future nowadays. Just trying to think about what im going to do on the coming weekend oftentimes is to much. I've also had this yearning for fellowship. Of surrounding myself with likeminded folks and being able to have a group. Dont get me wrong, I have plenty of friends, but no one that I can really vibe with outside of certain situations. I dont know how to go about filling that void. Maybe as the weather changes for the better and we transition into spring, I will get a clearer mindset.

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Laughter really is the best....at times

So recently I was given a specialty sourdough pancake gift set. It consisted of a bottle of dark stout beer and the pancake mix. Both were in glass beer bottles, and locally made. I was rather excited to receive the gift, and thought that it would be fun to try them, as I never thought of using a beer to make pancakes before and I am not a beer drinker, especially dark stouts or well any beer for the matter.

I set up my workstation to prepare for the cooking of these pancakes, and I go to open the bottle with the dry mix and it explodes all over me. Instantly I begin laughing like a crazy person as this mushroom cloud of pancake batter float through the air. I look down and my whole shirt is just covered in pancake batter, it looked like a snowman sneezed on me. After a few minutes of laughing, I go outside and dust myself off and return to making my breakfast.

Its not often that I laugh over situations like this. Normally in the past it would have sent me into a bipolar rage. But thankfully my brain said "no this is funny as hell." So yeah, laughter in this case was the best for me and I am thankful that I found the humor in it and not the "Hulk smash the world" aspect of it that my mind usually turns to. 

After making breakfast, I began cleaning up which in turn caused me to wash the dishes that I had been neglecting for a few days. Which then activated my ADHD brain and caused me to hyper focus on cooking and cleaning. So that is how I spent the entirety of my Saturday. Cooking and cleaning and being in a good mood, listening to music.

What is something that happened to you that caused you to just start laughing, when other times it may have caused you to be really angry?

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A period of

So I realized this morning as I was waking up, that I haven't updated my blog in awhile. I make sure to update my YouTube channel and my Podcast but somehow overlooked my poor blog. 

Well if you have been following along with me for any length of time then you know I can get kinda distracted and forgetful. But for those of you who are new and for those of you who dont follow my other social media, its been a really good few months. Feb 16th was Bella's one year passing, and the 23rd was Ba-Boy's one year adoption anniversary. So both of those days were very emotional for me. I still miss the hell out of Bella, and Facebook with its constant reminders and photo/video suggestions really keeps her memory alive.
I've not been as depressed as I normally am, which is something I am very thankful for. I am just experiencing sadness, which is nice. I know that you are probably scratching your head thinking to yourself "how is sadness a good thing?" But there is a difference between depression and sadness. Many think they are one in the same, but they are not. Sadness is happenstance. Typically brought on by an event that has just happened or finding that your pet has passed. Depression is more a whole body thing. Its chemical, and mental. Its your brain saying that "you are unloved", "you are a failure", "you are stupid for wanting better than what you have, because you dont deserve nice things", "you are ugly that is why no one wants you", "your friends are not really your friends they only entertain your presence...." The actor Jim Carrey said "Depression is you needing Deep Rest from the character that you have been playing, and trying to be strong for everyone but yourself.." I am paraphrasing it, but that is the jest of it. So being able to just experience sadness without it turning into me literally spending weeks in bed wanting to kill myself, and just being able to cry and move on has been wonderful and amazing. 

My new cat Bernard aka Ba-Boy has been a true help with most of it. I honestly believe that I wouldn't have been able to go much longer after Bella's passing without having someone else in the house with me. That constant companionship and just knowing that he is here with me really puts me at ease. And as you can see from the picture above, I think he kinda likes me too. 

Ive started doing things that use to bring me happiness and enjoyment, namely crafting. I found that a lot of my abilites have all but atrophied, but are starting to come back. I really want to try to get back into painting which is something I think im going to save for this summer when the weather is warmer and nicer and I can go out into the woods and just paint. I have started taking care of myself more too. Ive been going to the YMCA several times a week and swimming and doing water aerobics and meeting new people. And with that comes more self care, something that I was desprartly lacking there for the last few years. I've to date lost about 17lbs. Im feeling better about myself, and am even planning on getting back out and walking this April. I miss walking the trails, and seeing the hidden side of my surrounding town and countryside. The little hidden gems that you dont see everyday as you are wizzing by in a car at 50mph. 
Of coming face to face with a large Buck who is grazing on the undergrowth of the forest. This is one of the deer that live in town, and I wasn't walking, I was in the passenger seat of my sisters car when I spotted him.
 I love seeing nature, and to experience these forest puppies is damn near divine. So yeah I have some goals and asperations that I am going to attempt. I am being gentle with myself and not placing any major deadlines on things. Just do the best I can with what I have when I can. And so I have been doing just that. If you havent checked out my Podcast I would really encourage you to do so it can be found at Https://ancor.fm/hellocupcakeitsme or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcast, Amazon Music, iHeartRadio, CastBox, Pocket Casts, RadioPublic, and Stitcher,

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